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  • Joseanne Spiteri

Do Long Distance Relationships Work?

Long distance relationships can be challenging, as distance and lack of physical intimacy can take a toll on any relationship. However, with the advent of modern technology, communication has become easier than ever before. Couples can now maintain constant contact through messaging apps, video calls, and social media platforms. But, the question remains: are long distance relationships long lasting?

The answer is yes, long distance relationships can be long lasting if both partners are committed to making it work. Long distance relationships require a significant amount of effort, trust, and communication to succeed. Here are some reasons why long distance relationships can last:

1. Stronger Emotional Bond

Being in a long distance relationship can actually strengthen the emotional bond between partners. When you are apart from your partner, you may feel a greater sense of longing and appreciation for them. This can lead to deeper emotional connections and a greater appreciation for each other.

2. Increased Communication

In a long distance relationship, communication becomes the foundation of the relationship. Without regular physical contact, partners need to rely on communication to stay connected. This can lead to more meaningful conversations and deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts and feelings.

3. Trust Building

Trust is a crucial component of any relationship, but it becomes even more critical in a long distance relationship. When you are apart from your partner, you have to trust that they are staying faithful and committed to the relationship. Building trust requires honesty, transparency, and communication.

4. Better Problem Solving Skills

Couples in long distance relationships need to be more creative when it comes to solving problems. When they can’t physically be together to work out issues, they need to find other ways to communicate and resolve conflicts. This can lead to better problem-solving skills and a stronger relationship.

5. Shared Goals

Having shared goals is an essential part of any successful relationship, and it’s even more important in a long distance relationship. When you are apart, it can be easy to lose sight of your goals as a couple. However, having a shared vision for the future can give you something to work towards and help you stay connected.


While long distance relationships can be challenging, there are many success stories of couples who have made it work.


Here are some tips to make a long distance relationship last:

1. Set Ground Rules

Establishing boundaries and expectations early on in the relationship can help prevent misunderstandings later on. Discuss how often you will communicate, how you will handle conflicts, and how you will maintain trust.

2. Use Technology

Take advantage of technology to stay connected. Set up regular video calls, share photos and videos of your day, and use messaging apps to stay in touch throughout the day.

3. Plan Visits

Planning visits can give you something to look forward to and help keep the relationship alive. Make plans to visit each other as often as possible, and plan fun activities to do together.

4. Stay Positive

Maintaining a positive attitude can make all the difference in a long distance relationship. Focus on the positives of the relationship, and try not to dwell on the negatives. Remember why you are in the relationship and what you love about your partner.

5. Be Patient

Being patient is key in a long distance relationship. Distance can make things more complicated, and it may take longer to work through issues. Remember that relationships take time and effort, and that it’s important to be patient and stay committed.

Long distance relationships can be long lasting if both partners are committed to making it work. While they require more effort and communication than traditional relationships, they can lead to deeper emotional connections and stronger bonds. By setting ground rules, using technology, planning visits, staying positive, and being patient, couples


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